Southern Daddydom
- Age 50
- Ethnicity Caucasian
- Sexuality Straight
- Gender Male
- Orientation Dominant
- What do I look like?
- Height 6'0" / 183 cm
- Weight 270 lbs / 122 kg
- My Eyes Green
- My Hair Gray
- My Body Overweight
- Hair Length Short
- My Habbits
- Drinking Socially
- Smoking Rarely
Formally trained Dominant, more a Daddy than a Master. My primary kink is control, and I get the most fun giving you exactly what you want, after you’ve earned it.
I’ve been called a “true Daddy Dom,” but my mentor called me a Gentleman Dom: I get what I want but my sub comes first.
Married, but with an understanding about this sort of thing as the marriage is sexless due to some medical issues on her end. Details provided if we’re a good fit. If that’s a problem I understand completely – I’m here in order to stay in my marriage, and I can’t offer the ring, house, and children so many of you truly deserve. I just can’t be that guy. Photos currently not provided in order to give us discretion – my wife would be terminally embarrassed if word got out that we had this agreement, so discretion is paramount.
What I really crave is the intimacy that comes from a deeply trusting D/s relationship. The trust, the vulnerability, the acceptance that goes both ways. I want to get into your head and make your feel and experience what I want you to feel. I want you to learn new things about yourself as I learn them, and I want to take you to new heights.
Each session will be different based on needs, and I don’t want to call them “scenes.” What I enjoy most, and what most everyone I’ve played with has needed, is kinky fuckery rather than formal scenes. Yes, you need to be dominated, and you need to submit, but that looks more like rough sex, being manhandled, being used and forced to be who I want you to be in the moment than it looks like a formal scene. Hair pulling, choking, rules, spankings, punishments, rewards, not being allowed to cum without permission, rough (sometimes very rough) handling, anal exploration and play, pushing your skills and boundaries a little more every time, the excitement of exploration – that’s just kinky fuckery. And I live for it.
But I’m a Daddy. If you’ve had a rough week I’ll still require you to submit, and you won’t cum without permission, but I’ll work hard to insure that you know deep down to your soul how desired you are, how special you are, how you (and only you) can make me feel, and how deep our connection is. Take what you need, throw in what I need, and that’s where we are for the day. Somewhere between lovemaking and hard, impersonal hate-fucking and all the range that’s in between. That’s us, our spectrum of D/s, on any given day.
I’d prefer someone local (I’m in Statesboro). If you’re close to height/weight proportionate that’s fine – I want a submissive soul that NEEDS the sort of Domination I offer and looks are secondary to your need to belong to Daddy and act like it. Someone who can meet during the day is best, as evenings and weekends I tend to be unavailable. Be somewhere between 18 and 60, be open minded, kinky, and eager to explore. Brats are fine, but in the end I’m looking for someone to surrender to me, which means surrendering into giving and receiving as much pleasure as she can bare.
Physically I’m a big ‘ol Teddy Bear of a man. I’ll protect you, keep you safe, take care of you, and have my way with you. If you need abs I’m not your Daddy.
I’m huge on consent, and everything depends on us and what we agree on. I once met with a woman from out of state who was “bi” (actually a lesbian as we discovered) and all we did for about 8 hours was play “don’t cum without Daddy’s permission.” And it was glorious. There are no real requirements and “needs” I have. Well, I love kissing so you should too, and who doesn’t love a good spanking?
Yes, pain and control are fun, but I’m not a sadist. I like pain because it’s a way to control your body and mind and get you where I want you mentally and emotionally. If you don’t like pain, pain won’t be a part of our play. If pain is cathartic then we won’t go a session without making your break down in tears because you need it, but that’s for you, not me.
Aftercare is generally built into play. Loving kisses, snuggling, murmuring into your ear, letting you know exactly how good you were and how happy you made me. Maybe a long bath where I wash you and caress your hair, along with sexy wet snuggles.
TL/DR: I’m not _that_ kinky, but I’ve got a few hours of formal training, I live to take control, and I will take you those places that most women in this community seem to crave visiting. I’ll be your tour guide, but you’ll need to earn every bit of the tour with your submission and willingness to please.